Most persons can say one thing and mean another. Someone can say something to their friends and mean something different. Someone once said some people will say anything to someone and just because someone says something to you doesn’t mean they really mean it. This pertains to life itself, personal and professional. If you don’t mean what you say then your values are not true.
Be true to what you say because someone can take a meaning of importance in your words. Do you research if you’re confused on how to make a real meaningful conversation with someone. If you are an adult be more mature about what you want and say. There will always be truth and lies. No one can make someone tell the truth no matter how their tone of voice is expressed or directed at you.
How important are you? Importance depends on values. Everything is of value including people and someone else’s thoughts and emotion’s. Personal topics can make a relationship, a friendship, a type of distance you’d want to keep away from someone if you notice how they treat other people or the things they say can really effect the values they have added into your life. Let me tell you a story about someone who thinks of themselves.
Although, this specific person likes to think of themselves all the time it makes my question who did what to this guy to make him the way that he is. Hurt people hurt people is something an elder told me many years ago and many times. Although that statement could’ve been in the moment of conversation or something that has pertained to them in their life. Hurt people don’t hurt people. Someone can be hurt and still be true.
Relationships change with time. Time is the rule and time is true. What you think about though your time is in you and who you surround yourself with. How one decides to treat someone else is on them. Thanks Law of attraction for confusing every single person on the planet.
Cheaters and gamers are some of the worst people out there. They are never true. Family ties include people who are part of something greater than one can ever imagine. Now when there are people that are foreign to your family or unknown throughout the family that’s when you realize who cheaters are. Not everyone wants these associations in their life. The entire world is watching and you’re going to get caught.
Someone recently hurt someone now that that is being said no names ever have to be mentioned unless needed. There’s a guy that hurt someone. He cares about his momma more and the question is who emasculated him his whole life and fucked up his head so bad that he can’t properly function in any kind of relationship with any woman? He has the audacity to be in multiple relationships. What this means is he cares about himself more. Doesn’t matter if he’s with one woman or multiple women. He loves himself. He doesn’t necessarily love all these women he’s just keeping his options open and each one is fulfilling something different for him. He’s not true. The one he’s not telling or informing on his multiple relationships is the one he likes because she’s got the most things he’s looking for. Reminder he wants to keep his options open just in case something better comes along.
To mean something and truly mean it and to say something just to talk to sound good is not a way of doing things. This realization is a waking of an actual notion that has to be changed. He’ll be captured.
Some are going to laugh at this kind of thing because some people can relate to someone who acts in that nature. Doesn’t mean it’s right. He’s going to be scared to lose you. Focus on how to not lose yourself instead of losing him. Everyone finds someone they love and some are lucky enough to find someone who appreciates you more.
Some times you have to ask someone where they’re going.
Keep asking questions
You know love is such a beautiful feeling when somebody is in love with you they’d automatically be scared of losing you. If he is not scared of losing you then he does not even deserve to be with you. So walk away. People naturally walk around daily so don’t take the walking away personal.
There are too many deific women out there for someone to worry about a guy that’s dumb and doesn’t appreciate what a woman has and brings to the table. Be true and mean what you say because women dint like colorist men. Highly feminine woman moves with ease and grace because she knows she can carry herself with a natural elegance effortlessly and draw attention with her quiet confidence.
Don’t let pride, jealousy, revenge, and anger ruin your zen find your zen and soothe your way out of the mess.