Vindication and Validation

There is something about a friend that really bugs me and right now I may be focusing on it. In fact, I actually find myself getting more irritated in general with many of the people. Something simple to recognize is having more to do with your own mood than with your friend’s irritating idiosyncrasies. Managing a positive mindset until you are feeling better can get anyone through tough times with people. This is a good way to preserve harmony, vindication.

I need to shake something up in your world as far as business or finances are concerned know that something has to change. Yet, you may keep sticking to “safe” ideas that don’t involve any risk. Risks aren’t for risk takers if you have a plan and pivot through the financial world. Money really isn’t what it’s made to be. Money comes in many different ways and forms. Whether it’s virtually paid to you or physically paid to you, you have to make money. There is no reason as to why the world is the way it is and that’s how most people like to keep it that way. Each day you make something happen is another day you get to be lively.

If you have support in your life doesn’t matter from who that’s the most important thing to remember. Keep a nice good view on your emotions and mood and don’t let anyone get you down. Harmony is forever made throughout each day even when you’re sleeping. Just because you’re asleep doesn’t mean the world stops making magic happen.

There are so many heads up right now. Financial assets are gathering dust somewhere. 

1 out of 10 people actually have some income they lost track of and need to reconnect with it!

I’m getting more irritated with the way to preserve harmony and validation so now it’s time to take some chances without being overlooked.

Todays Blog

Now that’s it’s August. Many are getting enrolled in school, college, and continuing education. As the days pass each day I’m still thinking about the same people all the time. It’s like they aren’t only living rent free in my mind instead the past memories and experiences I’ve had with previous friends, co-workers, team mates, and those I’ve once liked keep on taking over my daily thoughts. I don’t want anyone living rent free in my head since that changes the way I think and feel. It’s time to take things in my own hands and back in control. Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent free in your head.

It’s important to do your job. Although I it’s really nice being around people who share and live their lives responsibly I just want to make sure I’m having some fun in the process. No one likes being bummed out or thinking about things that no longer serve them. That defeats the purpose of being your true authentic self. Choose your thoughts wisely because empowerment is arising. Hero’s are rising and taking new stances. Each thought you have is going to be either an investment or a cost. These people.. no names mentioned yet have much of a significant impact in life whether you’re in their life or not.

Friendly reminder having some type of education leads any and everyone to become who they were meant to be. We are not meant to be who raised us, we are not meant to be the foundational trust of those who impacted us in our previous years of life and I’m talking early age for example. That education you pursue in your twenty’s to late thirty’s is how you are meant to live your life this is what is going to make an impact for the now life styles. You can decide if you want to take chances to impact the lives of those who don’t have those experiences. Not one person can constantly live in the past. There is no way.

Thinking of those that I met in the past is only a simple thought that crosses my mind and lifestyle. I’m not meant to be the same as someone else. We can have the same interests just not a for sure guarantee i or anyone else is going to pick up on the positive or negative ways of life. The practice of not letting these same people occupy their presence within me all the time gets tiring when all you want to do is briefly remember them and not think of them often.

Social status and technology make things happen to the lives of each and every person who spends a specific amount of time talking to people all the time. There are people who are still friends with their friends from their past, good for them, right? There is an outside world out there now. The times arise when these people that you have never even met or spoken a word to before cause you to think of people you don’t like. That’s what gets me. What happened?

Life sucks sometimes and some days you just have to suck it up and go on about your day no matter how tough it is. Side note there are controlling people out there and I know for a fact some of the things these people should not be mentioning, talking about, or thinking about should be non existent. Freedom is not worth having if it does not connote freedom to err and even to sin. You don’t realize how much these things affect the way someone walks, talks, and works. You get nothing out of letting someone occupy your mind. You haven’t failed.

The resident be so overpowering sometimes it’s tough to not think about these people or what experience or time these people are giving you. Self care is so important. Take yourself out, buy yourself some flowers, buy someone else some freaking flowers, date someone, live it up with someone because no one has to be alone everyday. Update your life. I know some of you are holding on to many things or people who do not give your life sediment or value and this includes gifts someone has given you recently and many years ago. It’s time to let those things go so you’re not discarding what you don’t want nor need.

Each thought you have is either going to be an investment or a cost you decide on what needs to get done. Make it happen these people are quick to slow you down.

Past Meaning

For the longest time. I put my faith first which I will always do and will continue to do!

No shame in my faith whatsoever.

Due to my observations. There truly is bad in the world and when you cross bad people and you have a history of faith, it’s a scary combination. When you try to find the answers and peace within that person and even in their family, it can hurt you bad in the end.

Do not love the world. Do not let wicked people get to you.

Trying to oversee the good in someone who is bad, to realize in the end it’s not your job to make someone be good and treat you right. You can guide them the way but it’s up to them to recognize what they have done to you. Majority of the time, it’s too late for them to realize they made their closure with you and for their own benefit of the doubt.

We live in a cold world. I don’t like to speak this way but I’ve been in the streets for too long. Traveling all around to find my home. To find all the love that was robbed from me in my life.

You know people say money is power. But is that really true? When people use that against you and as a threat it’s scary. It’s scary knowing they have so many people around them and no matter what, they will lie for that individual. Right in front of me she said to her son, I will always take your side no matter what you do. No matter what that person has done. Their family will lie, cheat, and use their resources to get what they want.

They even have an in in the court system. The mom being mutual friends with the prosecutor who has gotten her son out of trouble throughout the years.

Why do people think they can overrule and have power over you with money and even their resources? That is not fair.

I understand people grow up poor and without the luxury they wanted. I see that people use other people for their own benefit and for selfish reasons.

It’s not about having all the luxurious things in life. It’s not about the riches. It’s about where your heart is. It’s about where your mind is. You also must recognize what is safe and what is not safe.

Yes, you can love someone more than they love you. But that’s not healthy. Life is all about love and that love must start with YOU.

The justice system needs to come into play. There are bad people in the world. World peace is the overall goal. How are we going to establish world peace?

I think I have an idea. Let me try to remember back in elementary school or maybe junior high school about the Supreme Law

“We the people in order to form a more perfect union establish justice ensure domestic tranquility. Provide for the common defense. Promote the general welfare and secure the blessings of liberty to our states and our prosperity. Due ordain and establish The Constitution of The United States of America.” U.S Constitution

I’m a gem. I know what I like and what I don’t like. I have every right to express what I feel is right, and what I feel is wrong. I’ve been through hell and back because of the clothes, work, career, jobs, family, friends, community, healthy life, communication, music, relationship, intake, and partners.

Knocked down, yet again waiting around.

When you get ready each day whenever that time is right for you. You are in the store, the shop, the gym, or any appointment living life as if you’re going to run into someone that you know. Guess that’s not going to happen at all. You can live your life waiting on people to show up for you. If you wait around for someone to show up you can’t be making any memorable memories with anyone whatsoever is how that seems. Stop waiting on someone else. Your so called friends, guys, or women you mess with will literally stand you up acting like they are going to show up and make some plans with you. It’s either going to happen or it’s not.

We all have our own thoughts and opinions as to what love should or shouldn’t feel like. Me, personally. ..I crave that kind of love that literally sweeps me off my feet.

I believe we live in a mans world.

I’ve been very observant over the years as I have gotten into relationships. I have seen my friends and family members speak to their exes while in new relationships and even while engaged or getting married to someone else and all I do is bite my tongue or speak my mind. If you two have a child together, that is another story and topic for another day.

I don’t understand why one must crave so much attention from multiple people. If you dare get into a relationship with someone you need to be for them or your shady self needs to step out of that relationship honestly and be a player elsewhere.

If you can’t commit to ONE person, and ONE person only you have inner issues.

There was this guy that crossed paths with me that was head over heels in love with his ex girlfriend and couldn’t get over her because she hurt him. So he would brag to me and some of my girl friends that he just messed with woman and likes to hurt them at this point and he doesn’t trust woman.

Anyways, this guy makes woman his “best friend” he calls them his “best friend” so he can boost his ego. I’m telling you this person is so wrong on so many levels.

After he gets her in bed, he goes MIA, so I’ve heard. All I could do is voice my opinion as to how messed up that is, better yet not say anything at all.

This guy feels. Men get hurt so bad from their exes thinking they can have any woman he wants so they can claim they can have sex with any woman and make them fall for him. Once again, boost his ego and tell his buddies about his escapades.

I want everyone to take a step back and self-evaluate. What year are you living in? I want people to go back to that old school kind of love and romance. Just a reminder that’s not just anyone’s preference.

I want people to feel okay bragging that they haven’t had sex with the woman or man they are talking to because they are trying to build a friendship first.

Getting into a relationship with someone and staying friends with your exes or people you used to mess around with is a flag. If you plan to truly commit to someone or if you plan to get into dating, wouldn’t you think it would be healthy and best to remove exes and old flings off of your social media? Are these people remove those pictures in their camera roll as well or just on their social media?

We never should’ve lied to you.

An All Day Thing

Being somewhere all day can make a few changes of mind because things happen. Either you’re going to have a plan or someone is going to make a plan and play happen for you. There’s a quote that said,” Good things come to those who wait.” Just pray on it and be persistent with some consistency.

I’m known for using the word knowledge. One can not be all knowing. There are reasons for that. Fluent individuals that throw you off and either stress your mind or make things more confusing for those without that knowledge. And no not one soul can hear everything someone says. That’s how it is. Each day though it is important to have some plan. If you don’t have a plan or an idea then you don’t get to have the right ways of life. Ignorance that is.

If you have some time throughout your day find some joy to make you put a smile up. Laughter looks good followed by a smile. If your round abouts get you many different places in a day and that seems like a day to make things happen like running errands then you’re further in getting something done. Not everyone gets to move around all day or work to make money to make a living. Sometimes accepting that you have to have activities without pay is the par of life.

Reparations, Babe.

I love talking things out. So If you ever feel like you gotta shade me, move weird or do anything malicious towards me… that’s because you wanted to. It was never nothing for you to come sit and talk to me and we hash things out like adults. Everybody always so GROWN until it’s time to communicate and take accountability for when you made a person feel a way even if those weren’t your intentions.

Clarification to Distance

LET ME BE CLEAR ….for years I let everything slide – BUT now I have boundaries. You don’t get to talk down to me. You don’t get to smile in my face and secretly despise me. You don’t get to throw jabs at me “innocently” through jokes. You don’t get to use me. One thing about it, actions don’t lie. I was too busy trying to keep the peace and that’s where I disrespected MYSELF. I deserve the love I give freely to everyone around me….. “I’m alert enough to catch the shade, and HEALED enough to go on about my day” just don’t step to me….. RESPECTFULLY

Being alone when you need support will really make you look at everybody different.

Heal in the way that you need to heal and remember where your respect and boundaries are. Live life each day and appreciate what and who you get to be around each day if not each day throughout the week. Don’t become to vulnerable to anyone.

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